Wednesday, February 6, 2008

Who knows me best.

I am writing about the person who knows me best as part of a weekly posting challenge.

This one was so easy. Ray knows me best. He would have to have been oblivious for the last 43 years to be not be that person. The idea that you look like each other the longer you are married doesn't hold true. However, in so many ways we have become alike. The most interesting similarity to me is the fact that we rarely fight, but are constantly negotiating the details of our life that we don't agree on. We also don't feel like rushing into most decisions. It is a joke that we talk about painting a room or buying furniture for five years before we actually do it. For us, this easygoing pace works. We are both satisfied and have reached decisions we are both happy with. It doesn't work for other people, but it does for us.

6 comments:

hoopy said...

that is so lovely! you should put that in his valentine! i hope to get there someday with my dh

tigger said...

Awwww!!!!! I love this...

Missy said...

how sweet

Parkie said...

perfect! what you have is so awesome!

Enuk's Mom said...

I love that little tribute to Ray. He's a good man and you are very lucky. I personally cannot say anyone knows me the best, I like to change it up at bit...LOL. But there are people that know alot about me and still like me, so I guess that's ok. You and Ray are lucky to have found the perfect match within each other.

Donna said...

This is so sweet!