Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Andrea as stylist, artist, vandal

Andrea was busy yesterday too.  However, her efforts were not cheered like Wyatt and his tooth.  I had allowed her play with scrap paper and children's scissors in the scrap room.  While I had been keeping an eye on her she seemed to be obeying the rules of only cutting paper and keeping scraps off the floor.  However, I had to leave for a while and Ray took over the watch.  However, he had to take a call and during the time his attention was not  focused on Andrea she decided to cut her hair.   She is totally unrepentant about the act even though she knew it was not a good idea.  She hid the cut hair under a table skirt as if we would not notice it was not longer on her head.  As a good measure she started to cut the skirt off one of her doll's dresses when I came in and confiscated the scissors. 
As Ray said yesterday, "What goes through a three year old girl's brain that makes her decide that taking a whack off the side of your head is a good idea.?"  Especially after an adult had told her and had her repeat back. CUT ONLY PAPER.  I don't imagine we will ever know.  I just remember my thought process in past usually came out later as "It seemed like a good idea at the time."  Oh, well.  Andrea has an appointment for a hair cut today to repair the damage.  I would say another cut little short bob is in her future.  Her mother will probably feel the worst about it, she was hoping to grow out Andrea's hair long.  At the rate we are going that might be when she is twenty three.

Wyatt's first tooth

Wyatt lost his first tooth yesterday.  As everyone knows, a tooth in the hand is only the end of a drama that had been going on for more than a week.  Wyatt first announced the tooth was loose.  Then he made daily reports of how it is wiggling, how maybe it was sore, maybe it wasn't. There were a couple of failed efforts to use the loose tooth as an excuse to avoid tasks and paying attention. Grandma made the required suggestion that she should just go ahead and pull it out.  Wyatt did the expected shriek and ran away.  It is so much fun doing this stuff even though it is nothing new.  Finally, the tooth lost its grip on Wyatt's gum and came out while he was asleep yesterday.  Of course the grandparents had to see it, so the tooth was brought over in a little box to be displayed and photographed.  Wyatt knows his grandmother too well.  The photograph was why he insisted the tooth come to our house.  Wyatt's first tooth went home again and under the pillow for the tooth fairy. Wyatt was not convinced he wanted to Tooth Fairy to take the tooth, he thought he should keep it as a memento. I am interested in finding out what teeth are going for these days.

Wednesday, November 21, 2012


A couple of weeks ago Ray and I went to Arlington Texas for the weekend.  This was one of those "just because we can" trips.  In the simplest sense we went down to have dinner with two of my friends who I scrap with every six months and meet another friend who I have known for  eight years, but never met in real life. Sandy Tygar also known as Tigger flew to Texas just to visit with friends.  It was amazing to meet her, Sandy is a talented artist who started as a scrapbooker like me.  She has just gone so far beyond that now. 
Sandy enjoyed another benefit of her week in Texas.  Her home in New Jersey had been without electricity for two week before she came as a result of the hurricane.  She was lucky that power came back on just  before she went back home.
On Saturday we went over to Frisco and went to the Ikea store.  We found some gifts for Christmas there and just totally enjoyed looking at all the stuff for sale there.  Ikea is an experience each time you go there.
We spent Saturday night in Oklahoma City.  We stayed in the guest quarters at Tinker.  We went to Shawnee to the Grand Casino and donated money to the Indians.  The casino has some pretty good restaurants so we enjoyed that.  Sunday before we headed back home we did some more shopping at the outlet mall.  After so many years of dismissing Oklahoma City as boring, we are enjoying going there.  It is closer than driving to Kansas City too.

Sunday, November 4, 2012

The Viet Nam Memorials

The Viet Nam War Memorials create the strongest emotional response it me.  It has be the fact that is is "Our Generations" war.  People we knew served and died in this war.  You visit the wall and the names of all these young people are there.  People who died before they were really adults.  People who left children and wives and families behind.  I look back at it now and I still ask Why?  I am not sure.  We didn't conquer some evil enemy.  We now get along with the communist government, people vacation there.  Refugees who immigrated here go back to visit families with out incident.  I just don't know.  I do know that the memorials that honor those who served and not the war are the most meaningful.

Saturday, November 3, 2012

Shanksville and the Pentagon Memorials

Both of theSeptember 11th memorials are striking in their simplicity.  At the Pentagon the victims are ranked in age order with the little three year old girl on the plane being the first bench as you come in.  The benches are oriented to show if the person was on the plane or in the Pentagon. The angle of the lines is the direction the plane came in to hit the Pentagon. The number of benches in each line gets greater and greater and then starts to get smaller again until you reach the last person, a 71 year old  retired military man on  the plane.  You can see on
the wall of the Pentagon where the repairs have been made.

 At Shanksville, the site also follows the direction the plane came in to crash.  There is a wall listing  the names of all the people on the flight.  At the end of the wall is a gate and a mowed pathway leading out to the place the plane came to rest.  Only family members are allowed to visit the actual spot.  There is a boulder and personal memorials there.  The two memorials are so effective and to me each had a different purpose.  The Pentagon memorializes the innocent victims of a horrific act of terrorism. The passengers did not know what their fate was going to be.  The Flight 93 Memorial is different.  It memorializes the innocent lives lost, but more importantly to me, it recognises the courage that ordinary people possess.  That people will take action despite the hopelessness of the situation, and while their lives were lost many others were saved. 
We were so grateful to have  been able to visit both the memorials. 

Friday, November 2, 2012

First Grade

This is what school pictures look like this year.  I thought there was something really stupid done when I first opened the package.  Why was the picture black and white?  Why was the color photo so skinny?  It turns out this is how Nicole chose the pictures.  Dumb me!  The pictures are not bad, they just weren't what I expected.  He is still a very cute little guy.

Christmas Cards

Tuesday evening, November 7th we will be making these stamped Christmas cards at Across Time and Page.  All of the cards are simple enough that they can be made in larger numbers to send out at Christmas.  I think my favorite is the glitter striped Christmas tree.  In fact I think I may be a glitter junkie.  Call the store and take the class.


Halloween always starts around here when we take Wyatt and Andrea out to Bergmann's to choose pumpkins.  Choosing pumpkins usually means running around yelling and choosing five or six different pumpkins before settling on the one they want.  We don't go to the maze yet, but that may still be in our future. We also go up to Wyatt's school for the Halloween parade.  The kids are so wound up and the noise level is so high the adults are exhausted and the kids are just getting started.  This year Halloween fell on Wednesday night so the biggest part of the candy gathering came from Trunk or Treat at church.  Ray really got into decorating the back of the Durango and kids were appropriately impressed by his work.  They went down the street once they came home.  Now just to eat all the candy.